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Adventures in Shiiba - February 1995
by
Erik Kassebaum
Christmas in Petaluma
I spent Christmas with my family this year. Though my vacation was long,
time seemed to go by too fast. For my friends and family, my appearance
in Petaluma was a rather fleeting thing. I was there. It was good. Then,
I was gone.
While in Petaluma I told many stories about life in Shiiba. Most of
the people I talked to were envious as to my living in such a wonderful
place. Because most of my friends thought of Japan as a highly industrialized
and very urban country, they found my tales of life in the country to
be quite refreshing.
Things Change
Since moving to Japan in July of 1993 I've been home three times. The
first two times I went home the changes felt like they were taking place
at a slow but steady rate. It was pretty easy for me to deal with the
changes. This time, the rate of change was much greater. When you leave
home people don't stop what they are doing and wait for you to return
- they move on with their lives. America is a very mobile society and
people move about once every four years.
One of the most significant things to affect me was the fact that many
of my friends had moved to other cites, states and even to other countries.
Imagine leaving Shiiba for a year or two and finding that most of your
friends had moved. Now imagine that the Shiiba you knew was full of strangers.
Friends and Family
Please don't think that all of my friends had left and that I was terribly
alone for I was able to find where many of my friends had moved to and
I was able to make contact with them. During my time in Petaluma I had
a chance to think about the things that are important to me. At the top
of my list are friends and family. While in Petaluma I had time to reflect
upon how many friends I've made in Shiiba and how important friendship
is. Embarrassment prevents me from telling you where things like pizza,
coffee, cheese, good beer, books, magazines and average highway speeds
of 100 kilometers/hour rank on my list of things that are important to
me.
Communication and Distance
Not everything about my trip home was pleasant. While back home I found
out about things that my family had decided not to tell me about over
the phone. They felt, as do I, that some things should not be said over
the phone. Some things are best discussed face to face. Though videophones
are not far off, they will not be a substitute for "being there."
Videophones will never be able to give you a hug, wipe away a tear, shake
your hand, or let you play with a puppy.
Topic for Discussion
The greatest danger that rural Japan faces is not foreign agricultural
products but rather the loss of its younger generations to life in big
cities. About 40% of Shiiba's Junior High School students move into a
dormitory when they are 12 years old. If they go to high school and then
to college they will have spent almost 10 years away from their families.
Ten years is a long time to be away from home. Perhaps it's time for people
to think about ways to keep families together. By the way, if a High School
were to be built in Shiiba it should have a curriculum that meets the
needs of the local community.
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